Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Drum Circles -- Who wants to beat a drum in St Louis!?!


While back "Home" in Safety Harbor, Florida I stumbled across my first "Drum Circle."  It was way cool!  I was very impressed with my 5 year old niece Kellan who, before we knew it, was shaking a tambourine while hula-hooping at the same time....now that's talent!
  

SIDE-NOTE DIATRIBE (pass over if you want): Ironically I really don't know where "Home" here on Earth is anymore.  I feel more and more that anywhere here on our planet is home and in reality just an enroute pitstop to the eternal life we all came from.  There is of course infinity backwards and infinity forward.  So in reality the years we spend on Earth are just a "Cosmic Speedbump" in our Infinite Life....this is true whether we believe in God or not.  Our matter will be somewhere in some form for Infinity Forward.  So it's more than just a choice of being optimistic or pessimistic, right? 

Here's why.  A believer in God decides to believe in God and a Heaven with not only the hope of being with God forever in Heaven but, almost as important, they allow themselves to tap into an infinite power source while they are still here on Earth!  They can become a bright light shining in the darkness.  In contrast, people who deny Him decide to let their spiritual batteries run low slowly discharging their energy into a hollow human existence of self-serving devotion and often self-pity.  Neither the believer or the non-believer are superior beings as both are loved equally by God, but both made a decision on how they want to live their lives.  Either through a conscious choice or selected intellectual laziness, both type of Earthly creatures decided on their Earthly existence and more importantly their Eternal existence moving infinitely forward.

Deep stuff, eh?  Well, it's real important stuff too!   That is truly the MOST important decision we have to make during our human existence...where we want to spend "Eternity Forward." So what is your decision?   

In my belief, we simply need to ask for God (Jesus- God the Son) to come into our heart and maybe even challenge Him to prove His existence if we want to remain a little stubborn.  I can guarantee that a person's life changes when they make this decision! 

Back to the Drum Circle, I enjoyed the fun and Spiritual nature of the seemingly impromptu Drum Circle and I decided to attend or start one when I returned to my St Louis/Scott AFB home. 

In researching groups in the area below is what I came across for the St Louis area.   The one in Safety Harbor had Belly-Dancers, Native Americans dancing, and folks seemingly from all walks of life.  They were old, young, able, disabled, and enabled by the power of the music and fellowship.  Who wants to go with me to one or to start one here!?!


The Best Drum Circles in St. Louis, Missouri

Create a Sense of Community and Sharing

Walt Crocker
There's an empty circle of metal folding chairs sitting at the front of the Pathway's New Age Books and Gifts in Concord Village, south St. Louis. Slowly, a scattered few start coming in around 7 o'clock. They bring a variety of drums. There are a few djembies, a bongo or two, and a couple of conga drums. There's even a couple of African talking drums.
Every body sits down and starts talking. They pass each other's drums around and comment on them. One participant brings up the fact that drumming is man's oldest form of communication. Another tells how drumming has been used in medical therapy to relieve stress and allow people with disabilities to communicate with one another.
The group consists of an eclectic group of people. There the long-haired musician that started the group. He owns a recording studio and plays bass in a rock band. There are others in the group who have no musical background whatsoever. There are people who come from all walks of life, getting together on a Friday night to bang on the drums and have a little fun. I'm one of them.
Everyone sits down and Robert asks everyone to go around the circle and tell everybody their name. Then he slowly starts a beat on his drum. Soon everyone joins in and a rhythm is started. A few minutes into it and the circle is jamming. A couple of the store's customers and the sales clerk stand and watch. After almost thirty minutes of continuous drumming, the beat slows down and the finally comes to a halt. There is a smattering of applause from the crowd.
The group does two more fifteen minute sessions of drumming before the circle draws to a close.
At the Center for Spiritual Living 12815 Fee Fee Road, on a Sunday evening, a drum circle gathers. It is more spiritual in nature than the one at Pathway's. It is led by an elementary school teacher. The group consists mostly of people who come to the Spiritual Center as regulars. Some of them have services like Reiki there. Others just come in to be enlightened about other religions. One lady brings her service dog, a big, fat Rottweiler, to the circle. As the drumbeat begins, one of the ladies chants softly, her words drifting out over the beat of the drums.
If you don't mind hanging out with the Rainbow Family on a Wednesday evening at Tower Grove Park, then you will enjoy drumming at about 8 O'Clock. A lot of the folks meet for a cup of Java at Mokebee's across the street from the park beforehand.
The Mountain Bear Drumming Circle meets once a month on the last Friday of the month at the Soul Esteem Center in Maryland Heights. This drumming circle has a more Native American theme. It is much slower and rhythmic and there is a talking circle at the beginning where a talking stick is passed around the circle and everyone gets a chance to speak. Beforehand there is a pot luck supper where everybody brings their own dish.
At 1 pm. On Sundays there's a drumming circle at Drum Headquarters on Manchester in Maplewood. You can learn the different ways of drumming and check out the awesome displays of drums at the store. You might even buy one before you're through.
If the love the Loop as much as I do, then you won't mind sticking around for a couple of hours on a Sunday afternoon and participating in their Sunday afternoon drum circle. It's easy to find, right behind Fitz's Root Beer. Everyone's continued participation in this drumming circle is crucial, because some people want to end all of the street performances in the Loop. I really hope that doesn't happen because that is the entire atmosphere of the place.
For more information about these and other drumming circles in St. Louis, check out my article "Drumming Creates a Sense of Community" at:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/288538/drumming_circles_create_a_sense_of.html?cat=33




You can also start your own drum circle by following the About.com suggestions at:
http://worldmusic.about.com/od/instrumentation/ht/startdrumcircle.htm  

Pax et Amor,
Brother Man Brian
www.PaxetAmor.org
www.BrainsFlight.com

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Love your Enemies


Good morning!
As I ready myself for round #4 of chemotherapy to stave off the brain cancer, I am also sadly having to respond to another round of unnecessary divorce paperwork from a sad & contentious woman who filed for divorce in the first place out of fear and shortage of love (at least commitment).  It is impossible, with our limited human brains, to make sense of this irrational situation. That said, I am only comforted by the fact that this sad problem is only another issue of this Fallen World. I will NOT be moved by this matter or anything else the World throws at me for I have the Sword of Truth at my side!  While I may not see Justice here on Earth I KNOW we all will ultimately have Justice on our final day.  While not perfect, I am ok with how I've treated one of the saddest events in my life.  Plus this too will be done one day and regardless of the outcome I will choose to be happy. 

In praying and reflecting on it this morning I am reminded of a couple good scriptures to keep me focused on what is really important: 1. To LOVE God and 2. HELP People. Instead of becoming angry with the person who DECIDED to become my enemy, I pray for this sad person who feels a demonic-like need to try and punish a man going through terminal brain cancer treatments. A person who feels a vindictive need like that must be in a really sad place of despair and self-pity. They is the person who really needs prayers and sympathy.  God please have mercy on all of us and thank you for the strength to overcome not only brain cancer, but this unnecessary legal matter mandated by a sad person.     

God knows that it's one of the toughest things in the this World to do, but we must truly love our Enemies and love EVERY-one as ourselves. By the way, when we truly love our Enemies it messes with their minds because they are so ate up with hating that they aren't expecting it.  It's a sad, but true fact. 

Enjoy your day Friends and don't let the “Neggies” (Negative People) get you down! One day in our future we will not have to be concerned with Neggies, legal matters, or vindictive people as God will give us all ultimate justice.  Until then be comforted with these 2 scripture readings: 

1 Peter 5:6

6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

Matthew 5:43-48

Love for Enemies

43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

On a brighter note, I am listening to Jimmy Buffet's song, "The Weather is Here, Wish you were Beautiful!"  It's a great day here in St Louis Town.....I hope you enjoy yours! 

Pax et Amor,
B. K. Kissinger

Monday, May 21, 2012

Life is a Daring Adventure or Nothing at All!



Life is a Daring Adventure or Nothing at All -Helen Keller 

Helen Keller was anything but a wimp!  She became deaf and blind as a 19-month old child and had a mountain of adversity to overcome.  By the Grace of God (detailed in the movie The Miracle Worker) Helen developed an extra spiritual sense that helped her overcome her adversities.  
 I trust from my personal experiences that we all can, if we choose to, tap into the same unlimited energy source that Helen used during her lifetime here on Earth.  

In my humble opinion, we tap into this great reservoir of power (God’s power) when we are: OPEN TO BEING OPEN and WILLING TO BE MADE WILLING.  It also helps to have a thirst and hunger for life and adventure. In addition, having a focused stubbornness helps too.   

In discussing this matter with a good friend today, I also recalled the life of Theodore “Teddy” Roosevelt.  President Roosevelt, as a young man, was sickly and pale before he DECIDED to head out West to toughen-up his body and mind.  In the same determined Spirit of Helen Keller, Teddy Roosevelt flourished in his adversity, became stronger and later became famous as the Commander of the “Rough Riders” (1st US Volunteer Calvary Regiment) during the Spanish-American War.  The Rough Riders’ exemplary service launched Teddy into the national spotlight and helped his later successful bid to become one of our nation’s most revered Presidents.  But first Teddy had to DECIDE, with the help of an infinite power source (God), to overcome his human frailty and drive on to greatness.    

My point is that both Helen Keller and Teddy Roosevelt had shortcomings like you and I have today as none of us are born perfect.  But, through the power of the Spirit (our own Spirit and the Spirit of our Creator) we can decode to elevate the level of participation in this thing called life.  Or we can decide to just be a spectator and watch it from the sidelines.  I don’t know about you, but I am NOT a spectator in Life.  
Yesterday I had the wonderful opportunity to get my daily dose of adrenaline by flying a hot little airplane called a Sonerai.   It felt good to “go fast,” get upside down looking down at God’s green Earth and even push it, not too hard, down the runway at 160 knots (BTW 1.15 mph = a knot per hour).  In reflection, I recall that a year ago that there was no way that I could have done this.  I was about 5 weeks post-brain surgery (#1 of 3 in 2011) to remove a cancerous tumor and a sleeping deadly infection  was about to put me in the hospital over Memorial Day weekend and try to kill my Earthly existence.  I guess God wants me around Mother Earth for a little while longer so I will rejoice and be glad in EVERY day He gives me from here on out.
 
Truly God wants us (you included) on Earth, enjoying your days.  Furthermore, in my opinion, we maximize that enjoyment by making our life a daring adventure and not just another boring spectator sport. 
  
Pax et Amor,
B.K. Kissinger

Founder/Pastor/CEO
Instructor Pilot/Adventurer/Survivor

www.PaxetAmor.org
www.BrainsFlight.com

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Key to Happiness Discovered!







Key to Happiness Discovered!

What is your key to Happiness? What makes you Happy?

As one of my favorite t-shirt slogans says:
“Beer is living proof that God loves us and wants us to be Happy!” -Ben Franklin

Happiness could be a few pints of brew and a friend or two to share them with. 

Webster defines Happiness as: Definition of HAPPINESS
1
obsolete : good fortune : prosperity
2
a : a state of well-being and contentment : joy b : a pleasurable or satisfying experience

I feel that Webster's definition is obsolete and most of the World has it wrong when it comes to Happiness. We have a warped sense of Happiness in the World often tied to money, good health, a perfect body, and other Worldly things.  I can honestly say, after making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year for many years and recovering from my first bout of brain cancer that I was at my Unhappy High Water Mark during those prosperous years when I first retired from the Air Force and went back to GE as an executive making good cash.

In comparison, during the years I had the least material possessions (in the early 1990s and now) but had a passionate vocation (Air Force Special Operations then and now with starting/running the Pax et Amor charity)  I've been the happiest.  Maybe it because I had less to worry about, to manage, or to worry about losing or someone stealing from me.  Or maybe it's because, now, I allow less negativity to seep into my soul from outside by, typically, negative people.  I guard my soul like Fort Knox by deciding to stay away from negativity, negative people, and focus on being Happy.  

Thankfully, many of my Worldly possessions were taken away by a vindictive, soon to be ex-, or given away in order to reduce, simplify, and focus on more important things.  I am truly happier that I no longer allow these possessions or negative/vindictive people to affect my Happiness.  I still wish the "Neggies" (Negative People) the best, but just don't want them around me if they are being perpetually negative.  If I can't leave their presence, then I do my best to limit my exposure to them...sorta like a cancer-causing agent or acid.

AVOID CONTACT IF YOU WANT TO LIVE!!! 

I am pressing forward in THE most Happiest and Creative phases of my life.  It's true that I have "Terminal" Brain Cancer, but we all could die ANYtime of just about ANYthing.  The only important question for ALL of us is  where we want to spend eternity and that is a decision on whether we want to be happy or not too.  

I thank God that I have enough to exist and do a few extra fun things.  Most importantly I wake up each morning VERY happy.  About a year ago, due to the brain cancer and deadly infection that almost took my life, there were a many nights I went to sleep not knowing if I would make it through the night.  At the same time my wife of 20 years filed for divorce, took most of our material possessions and moved to Florida without me.  

So after what, instead of Webster's definition, we use a more SIMPLE and REAL definition like. Happiness is the result of being Happy, it is a choice a person makes REGARDLESS of their environment and regardless of how prosperous, pleasurable, or seemingly satisfying experience it appears

For REAL happiness is found ONLY when the person DECIDES to be happy EVERYWHERE they are. Sure! Having some money, food, and other things make it easier to feel happy. But some of the happiest people I know are what some would call vagrants, Hobos, bums, or “Free-Spirits” who have little material possessions or money for they are free and NOT tied to many people's perception of Happiness and they are truly happy.  A type of happiness you rarely find in the McMansions popular today in the American dream.  Those folks are prisoners in their own Happiness worrying about how to pay the mortgage, whether their husband is cheating one them, or how their kids will turn out, etc.    

 Life is a Mirage, an especially sad one when a person allows others to decide their lives for them!  I suggest we choose love over hate, peace over conflict, and to build our people up rather than trying to tear them down. 

Ok, Bri that all sounds great, but I can't really just start being happy and Happiness comes. I mean my life sucks and I need to pout a little while longer. Ok, got it Friend. Meanwhile while you're belly-aching, happy people like my little buddy in the attached picture and I have DECIDED to be happy with our challenges and our struggles.  We have moved on and are Happy Tiggers versus Sad Eeyores.

I hope you get your Tigger on soon too and pull yourself up from the Eeyore abyss.

Pax et Amor,
B. K. Kissinger